Delegates meeting at Synod 2022. Photo by crcna
Church members rally at Synod 2022 in support of the LGBTQ+ community. Photo by Steven Herppich
Response to Synod 2022 Decisions
In June of 2022, the Christian Reformed Church synod (annual gathering of leaders) defined “unchastity” to include “homosexual sex,” effectively making opposition to gay marriage something that all CRC office bearers and members are expected to adhere to. There are a variety of perspectives among Church of the Savior’s members regarding God’s will for human sexuality, and some of us are still working out our views, but the majority of us are in disagreement with this decision made by our denomination. For that reason, we are spending the next few months in a process of discernment about what that decision means for the future and direction of our local church community. As we seek God’s will together, we remain deeply committed to CotS’ vision: A safe and authentic community where we are known and loved as we experience and share the grace of Jesus Christ.
Next Steps Discernment Process
In February 2023, our church started the Next Steps Discernment process, a tool developed by Pastor Church Relations, who have spent the last forty years "inviting Christian Reformed congregations to embrace challenging conversations and lean into spiritual discernment rather than avoid them and hope their questions just disappear or resolve on their own." You can learn more at their website or by watching the video.
The Process
Training
On January 14, 2023, six members of the congregation were trained as Listening Circle Facilitators.
First Stage
From February 26 through March 4, six different small groups met in listening circles with facilitators.
"Remain in Christ" - two opportunities for a scripture practice of "Holy Reading" (Lectio Divina) were offered the week before the listening circles.
"Love One Another" - the respectful and loving listening that took place in the circles.
"Not My Will, But Yours" - a guided prayer before each listening circle helped us to enter into this attitude.
Second Stage
On March 21, the Council will have its own listening circle to process the information received in the First Stage.